I am planning to take care of my sick elderly mother, but according to the new law, I will not get a deferral if the mother has other children to take care of. But my sister absolutely refuses to do this, she has not spoken to her mother for more than 10 years and does not plan to take care of her. How should I act in such a situation to get a deferral? Is it possible for the nurse to officially refuse care?
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